"What he means is," Jonathan quickly added, "that you don't approach magic normally. The normal approach is, you summon the power and then force your will on the world, but you look for the smallest change needed to get what you want and...talk the universe into it."
"You guys don't?" Xander asked surprised.
"Not until you explained it to us," Jonathan admitted.
"It makes it so much easier," Andrew said. "Of course now I'm doing the same thing, trying to figure out the easiest way to get the same effect."
"Can I get an example?" Oz asked curiously, wondering what this had to do with sex.
"Sure," Xander said as he turning to scan the beach. "OK, see that young couple right there?"
Everyone turned and saw a pair of young teens who kept leaning close to another and then pulling away at the last second, blushing brightly.
"How would you get them to kiss?" Xander asked.
"A burst of wind to push them together?" Jonathan suggested as the pair leaned close once more.
"A surge of hormones?" Andrew added.
"Even easier," Xander said. "Sensation...you send the sensation of lips touching when they get close enough and they'll get over their hesitation, watch."
Xander licked his thumb and waited until they came close together once more, gathering their courage, and whispered, "Kiss," before lightly brushing his thumb across his lips.
The pair pulled away blushing brightly then leaned and kissed 'once more'.
"That was awesome," Oz said, seeing a number of ways to use that spell.
"They look so happy," Andrew said with a wistful smile.